Hey, thanks for the reply Bucklash,
So I found the answer to part of my question. To turn off the reset option you just have to click the parameters on the submit button and set "show alternative" to hide.
for the other part I'm still searching how to change the class of the submit button.
the strange thing is that I've seen an example of a seblod submit button that has a different class than what I'm coming up with.
I've got
class=button btn
but I'd rather have
class=button btn-primary
I tried putting this in the markup field on the button but it put the class in the container div and not on the button itself.
I can't believe that you have to use an override to accomplish this though.
Thanks again